Nixen (Generous Male)

Personal Info

• Age: 43 (Aries)
• Body Type: Average
• Height: 5'8" (173cm)
• Hair / Eyes: Dark Brown / Brown
• Education: Bachelors Degree
• Children: 3 Children
• Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
• Religion: Agnostic / Non-religious
• Smoking: Non-Smoker
• Drinking: Non-Drinker

I'm From: San Jose, California, US

Will Fly You to His Town Will Come To Your Town Will Travel with You

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Places I want to travel to:

Hong Kong, Hong Kong San Francisco, United States Las Vegas, United States Tokyo, Japan London, United Kingdom Paris, France San Diego, United States Los Angeles, United States Honolulu, United States Amsterdam, Netherlands Sydney, Australia

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A little bit about myself:

updated May 1st, 2013

«Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.» -Helen Keller

— Intro:

I'm Polyamorous, and I like being in several long-term, open relationships, meeting between once a month to 3 times a week.

I've been on the site for about a year now, and I've met some amazing people, learned a ton about myself and even more about life in general.

Personally, I'm looking for interesting people to explore the World with.

I don't care where your boundaries are. They could be just holding hands, or 50 shades darker, all I ask is that you let me know so I don't have to guess much.

— My Rules:

I have 2 rules…

Rule #1:
«No means No»:
Anytime, Anywhere, For Everyone involved, No means no.
No Exceptions, No Questions asked.
And yes, «No» is a complete sentence.

Rule #2:
«Friendship before Everything»:
I have a superpower. No matter what your truth is, I can handle it.

Got drama? No problem.
Got rules? Easy-peasy.
Got requests? Let's hear them.

But like all superpowers, my abilities come with some fatal flaws…

I only know what you tell me, I can't read minds, and I have no idea what you like, dislike or have yet to decide on.

I want to feel like we can share our thoughts about anything. Thus my second rule, Friendship before Everything else.

— Just the Facts (about me):

Age: 43
Weight: 210
Skin: Caucasian (olive)
Eyes: Hazel
Height: 5'8"
Teeth: Crooked

Status: Separated, divorce pending.
Net Income: $135k/yr.
(note: No, I'm not a millionaire)

Sexual Orientation: Hetero
Relationship Style: Solo Polyamorous: I like being in several long-term and open relationships at once. And I like a lot of time alone…

Kids: 3 boys (14,10,7)
Gym: 4 days a week
Health: Fit(ish)
Hygiene: Clean & Tested
Style: Casual to Business Casual
Looks: Average on the outside.
Hobbies: Life with Benefits

Life Philosophy: Every day's a Holiday

Smoking: never needed it
Drinking: never tried it
Personality: I'm a Curious Cat that's already used-up 6 of my 9 lives…

But enough about me, let's talk about you.

— About you:

In Public you:

1. are a great conversationalist
2. think a lot about life
3. have several close friends
4. enjoy people watching
5. like to travel
6. love life
7. wear heels with jeans
8. have a good sense of humor

In Private you:

1. are a great conversationalist.
2. think a lot about your own life
3. talk about your deepest thoughts and fantasies
4. enjoy pillow talk
5. like to share a good meal
6. are open minded
7. run, jump and skip barefoot
8. have a good sense of humor

— The Process:

It's easy, just tell me your fantasy…

It can be as simple as a Walk in the Park, or as complex as getting lessons for Scuba Diving in Okinawa, Japan… But it needs to be compelling, something you really want to do, and something worth investing our time together in.

And it needs to start and end here locally (think SF Bay Area).

Note: if you don't fantasize, and you don't know how to enjoy life, then there's a good chance, we're not a good match.

— My Promise:

If I like your fantasy, I'll cover any and all expenses related to the event. (Food, entertainment, travel, lodging, you name it)

And if you wanna know what I enjoy, see the section below…

Also, feel free to ask me any and all questions you may have; I answer all but the most personal ones (like 'what's your Social Security Number?')

— In Closing:

Well? Whatcha waiting for? Email me. And, let's start planning our first rendezvous…

Yours,
-Charlie

Why I want to travel:

«One cannot divine nor forecast the conditions that will make happiness; one only stumbles upon them by chance, in a lucky hour, at the world's end somewhere, and holds fast to the days...» -Willa Cather

So, let's walk through this, as I'm open to a number of different types of arrangements…

Intimacy Levels: {{Feel Free to Choose}}

a) 'Good Clean Fun' (friends): holding hands, small kisses, lunches, and walks in the park… I like that kind of stuff, even if its not going anywhere…

b) 'Friends With benefits' (FWB): Got more to offer then just friendship? Let's go with that…

««(b)note: If you are simply looking for casual hookups, no need to apply. 'FWB' does not mean 'fresh weekend booty'… the 'F' stands for 'Friends' and it comes before all the rest...»»

Activity Choices: {{Choose all that apply}}

a) Dinner Mint: Wanna just go out and eat, talk and enjoy an hour or two together? Sounds fun!!!

b) Inflight Snack: I travel 2-3 times a year for business… Wanna see the World together? Me too…

c) Movie Critics: Like movies? Like to talk about them before and after you go to watch them? If so, I'd give this choice 4 stars and 2 big thumbs up…

d) Coffee House Philosophers: More than anything else in life, I love to discuss the hard questions… What if you had a confidant for whom no question of life was out of bounds?.. where any question, no matter how big or how small, you could ask with the simplest of ease? And where the two of you could discuss the answers for minutes or hours depending on the the pure joy of exploring one of life's many mysteries…

e) Trail Mix: Like to hike? So do I. But the views are always better with someone by your side…

f) Sugar Plum: Got a green thumb? Wanna check out what's in season at a nearby u-Pick farm? I'm always in the mood for something ripe and sweet…

g) Gym Candy: I try to go to the gym everyday, and always enjoy the company. Wanna work out at a great gym, just let me know!

a) For all activities: I'm happy to pay all expenses during the activity…

b) Inflight Snack: All reservations must be made in advance, and pricing is based on an all-inclusive package of airfare, premium car, a wide selection of local food choices and accommodations at a local 3/3.5-star hotel…

Note: I'm not looking for long-distance friendships, but in-person collaborations… In-person is better than phone, phone is better than text, and text is better than telegraph…

Ok, I've told you what I'm looking for… now your turn…

-Nixen

« I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles....» -Audrey Hepburn